Sometimes, the most beneficial lessons in life come through experiencing them firsthand; yet the wisdom we are able to discover from those who’ve walked a comparable journey before us is priceless. If you are providing care for someone you care about with dementia and becoming a bit stressed in this uncharted territory, the tips below will help:
- A brief break could make a big difference. Whenever your senior loved one is struggling with challenging feelings, such as fear or anger, it’s best to pause whatever activity or task she is involved with, and allow the chance for a break. Modify the surroundings by moving into a different area or outside if the weather allows, play some favorite music, take a look at a photo album, or mention different birds and flowers. When peace is restored, it is possible to try the task once again, more often than not with far better results.
- Let go of rationalizing. Looking to prove a point or win an argument is not usually effective when talking with a person with Alzheimer’s. Remind yourself that the person’s brain functioning is modified, and as long as no harm is going to be done, permit the senior to maintain her own personal reality.
- Conquer denial. Although it might be human nature to want to deny that there’s an issue, recognizing signs and symptoms of dementia and pursuing medical attention at the earliest opportunity is necessary to obtain the medical care and treatment needed.
- Check medications. The side effects of certain prescription drugs may actually cause greater confusion and cognitive difficulties than the disease itself. Put together a thorough listing of all medications (including over-the-counter ones) and evaluate with the senior’s health care provider to make sure that the advantages surpass any adverse effects.
- Take proper care of YOU, too. Caregiver burnout and depression are serious risks for loved ones caring for a senior with dementia. Make sure you’re making sufficient time for self-care, socializing, and hobbies which you enjoy. Bear in mind that your loved one will benefit from having a caregiver who is healthy and refreshed.
- Realize that life can be fulfilling with dementia. Even though the person you love is going through some challenging changes, it is very important to understand that life, while different, can certainly still be meaningful and bring happiness regardless of the disease. Consider different types of activities for the senior to enhance socialization, improve memory and cognitive functioning, and stay physically active.
Independence-4-Seniors Home Care is always here to provide the assistance you need to make sure your loved one with dementia is able to live life to the fullest. Give us a call at (630) 323-4665 to learn more about our highly specialized in-home dementia care for seniors and schedule a free in-home assessment.